Dear Aunty Temilolu,
Last December, I was advised by my poor mother to move out of the house because my father twice attempted to rape me. I grew up in a loveless home where my parents fight every day. My mother has been living a very frustrated life but has nowhere to go; neither does she have any money of hers so she has to endure my father. To be truthful, I moved in with my boyfriend in December. I wash his clothes, cook for him and we engage in sexual intercourse every day. I’m tired of this! My body is tired, my heart aches, I cry every day. Please help!
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Though, Itunu’s mother called me and also narrated her daughter’s experience, I wouldn’t know her background or if she had the opportunity to have some sound education which could avail her a good source of income. Now, you see why I keep hammering on you all prioritising your lives, laying a solid foundation for your future and engaging in what is right per every season of your life. If Itunu’s mother had a good and steady source of income, will she be at the whims and caprices of a wicked, confused man who wants to sleep with his daughter?
Excuse me, gone are the days when a woman should be asking her husband for N1,000. I know there’s an economic recession and even before that came, unemployment and all of that but p-u-r-l-e-a-s-e, good education or not if only women concentrated on their virtues right form their younger years, they’d discover that they are gold mines. There must be something you can do or sell aside your body. You might not even need any capital. You girls know what I’m talking about! However, when you fall in love and instead of concentrating on your innate skills and abilities to live a good life and you start fantasising about your boyfriend day and night, then to tear your destiny apart, you start sleeping with him, believe me, your original is gone! THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER! And I won’t stop talking about it! Your teenage years should be spent laying a solid foundation academically, spiritually and even emotionally. We are in a crazy world where dreams could be shattered too soon and you may end up having to depend on your own strength to pursue a life that’s worth living. The female folk do themselves more harm than good; they sell themselves too cheap to the male folk who in turn debase them! I pray you all will learn and chart a better course for your lives!
My darling Itunu and every girl living with her boyfriend,
I’m with you on this matter, looking for a way out but to start with, you have to move out of your boyfriend’s house. Engaging in sex with him is compounding your problems. You are loaded with intuition, intelligence, wisdom, insight and extra-ordinary power which you really need now since you have parents who can’t help you. All of these can only be activated by the power of God. Alas, the ungodly sex you daily engage in paralyses the power which should be working in you and firing up your virtues. Also, do you know how many other girls he’s sleeping with or the evil baggage he’s transferring into your life through sex? Yes, I’m talking about ill-luck, stagnation, generational curses etc. All of these add up to a frustrated life and pushes one around the depths of despair. Also, when your flesh has dimmed your spiritual connectivity, how can you discover new vistas or God’s wonderful plans for your life or that which is designed to make you shine? The painful thing is some opportunities come just once! I can tell you for a fact that what was arranged to make you succeed or shine in your teens or 20s may never make you shine in your 30s and that is if you ever discover it! There’s a time-table for every life-the more reason you must connect to your spirituality now, now. You are more than you can ever imagine- a wonder waiting to start!
Believe me, no matter what anyone thinks, God is still faithful to those who are faithful to Him. The word of God will never change. The word of God supersedes every theory or thought about your body and sexuality propounded by any human being. It is time-tested and proven to work wonders, put lives right and deliver all it promises! The one who can sort you out and make your life worth living is the word Himself! Do not let the world’s sexual permissiveness becloud your sense of reasoning. If sleeping with men for money works for others, who says it would work for you? Do you know what your destiny/star requires to manifest? Be patient my love! Be of good courage! I perfectly understand how you feel but the earlier you surrender your soul to God the better for you! Help is on the way!
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